Most
people are attracted to the guys/ladies that exude confidence, and the reason
for this attraction is not far-fetched. It is beautiful to watch confident
people. Confidence is like a nice perfume which its fragrance sits well on the
wearer. It is almost impossible not to notice the person wearing a nice fragrance;
that is how confident people appear. You can choose to ignore them, but you
can’t help but notice them. This people can literally walk into any place and
get what they want. Why? Because they believe they can get it and this positive
aura usually robs off on the person they need that “yes” answer from.
Despite how we admire confident
people, many people are lacking this trait. Of course, one of the reasons could
be because of the person’s personality or make up, yet, this shouldn’t be an
excuse to be timid. If your natural abilities tends toward being timid, work on
it, timidity can reduce your chances of getting the results you want. Quietness
does not connote being timid, while the former is acceptable, the latter is the
opposite of what we need to work towards. Be bold and confident, this is a desirable
trait.
It doesn’t take much to work on
yourself and build yourself in the areas you are lacking. What is required from
you is a commitment to do what you need to do. If you decide today that you are
tired of a particular state of affairs that is within your control, then change
it! If you do not have the right skill, mind set or whatever you need to effect
that change, then get those things that you require. To build your confidence,
watch confident people, try and understand their mindset, then go for the
change you need.
Have a nice week!