It is forever a good gesture to give out compliments. These compliments, especially when given genuinely can make the recipient feel good. Of course, they may not say so, but it happens. So, if you see someone wearing a nice perfume, cologne or anything you fancy, compliment them about that subject you fancy. (You can see the video version of this here-https://youtu.be/O-Ce7qDw4OY?si=O6eHbXxyPHDh2X0k)
The world could do with some good. Many people are fighting unseen wars, emotional traumas, and disappointments, just to name a few. So if you happen to make someone forget their challenges, even if for a short while, you would have succeeded in giving that person a moment of respite, no matter how fleeting it appears. Be amongst that small percentage of people who like seeing others happy and actually make it happen.
Social media is already a world on its own, with many faceless people, quick to condemn and pass judgements, but very slow to give compliments. A world where some people hide behind their keypads to malign people, project their insecurities on others and generally belittle other people’s achievements. So, if you happen to be active in that space, choose to be different, be humane, give people benefits of doubts.
When rumours are spreading, do not be amongst the first to pass judgement, even if that rumour eventually turns out to be true, choose to be amongst that minority that understands that we all are human and therefore fallible. You may think that you are better placed, or have a better moral standing, but if truly you are, then learn to look the other side when people are tearing down others online or even if not online, do not be amongst that crowd that tears people down because of their ”mistakes”.
Spread love, laughter, and good vibes anywhere you find yourself, because this is very essential and necessary for everyone’s emotional well-being. No man is a super human, so do not expect perfection from people. Forgive mistakes, create room for reconciliation. Have a positive aura, this will attract more people to you. Be a safe place!
Go into this week with a good disposition, let everyone you encounter this week, be happy and glad that they met you.
Have a great week!