Form the habit of writing down your thoughts or feelings at a particular time. This may help you understand your growth or what you should be thankful for in the future. We live life in stages; you can only graduate to stage three when you have finished the first and second stages. Sometimes, looking back […]
Bottling up certain emotions may not be the best for you. If you feel angry, by all means, control it, so you don’t cause more harm to yourself and the object or subject of your anger. Certain emotions like hurt, loss, etc., require some form of expression so you can recover quickly, or heal from
Starting a new venture can be challenging, because even though you have done your research, your diligence etc., there is still a possibility that something you did not plan for may happen. This may be due to insufficient information at your disposal during your planning stage or maybe because you did not properly conduct your investigations
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Time is the only constant factor that applies to every human being. We all have twenty-four hours of the day. So many other factors, such as our background, opportunities, environments etc, are variables. So, as much as we like to say we are busy, the question is “busy with what”? While some people can get
If you have a nudge about something, why don’t you pause and investigate that feeling, instead of shifting it away? Many people have averted big mistakes, simply by investigating a ‘certain’ feeling they had. If something doesn’t feel right, then maybe it’s because something is not right. Find out why. It may eventually be nothing,
It is beautiful to be around people who understand your value, understand why you act the way you do and why certain decisions you take though not common are for good. Being in a situation where the opposite of this happens can be physically and mentally draining. If care isn’t taken, you may begin to
When allegations are made against someone, it is usually in such a person’s interest to take action to clear his/her name. The problem with false accusations is that even though untrue most people tend to believe it unless it is shown that such accusation is false. When those false allegations stick, the victim’s character becomes
Every human being is unique. That is why no two human, even twins are alike. There is something different and unique about every person. As our faces are different, so are our attributes, characters and giftings different. These differences are what makes are our world interesting, the varieties in our likes and preferences, the “absurdities”
It is not enough to make big plans. The real work lies in executing that plan. Some people are only good at making plans, but sticking to those plans, and following through with the necessary steps to reach their ultimate goal is where they really have a problem. (You can watch the video version of this
Let bygone be bygone. Allow matters that should be in the past to remain there. Allow yourself the luxury of enjoying the gifts of the present and the hopes of tomorrow. Draw in positive energy to yourself. We are often too over-burdened by the worries of life to really have time to enjoy life. There
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