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As humans we do have that tendency to shy away from things that may bring us pain, we would rather go to the spa, have a good time with friends than indulge in any activity that may bring us either physical or emotional pain. No matter how we look at it some pains are necessary […]

Whenever you are trying to stop an old habit, its best to avoid people who are still indulging in the conduct you are trying to quit. It is much better to take yourself out of that kind of environment for some time until you are sure you can no longer be affected by being in

It is not enough to seek permission from someone i.e. superior authority before taking any action, ensure that you get the approval you seek. This is especially necessary if you work in hierarchical organization that requires the stamp of approval of a senior officer before certain actions are taken. What some people do is that

Any plan that has any chance of success must be well thought out. By thought out, I mean well researched, necessary questions asked, answers received, or where no answers, alternative arrangements made to balance out the grey areas. All this process must be undertaken if you want your plans to succeed. Success is a question

  The day you discover that an information which you had relied on, worked with and believed to be true for a long period in your life is false is the same day you should plan to work out something with your newly found information. First of all, it is important not to berate yourself

 How do you make amends when you’ve inadvertently wronged someone? Is it okay to just apologize? Are there occasions where a mere apology is insufficient? No, I do not have straight answers to these questions, I will only attempt to state what I may do if I ever find myself in any of these situations.

The problem with trying to please everyone is that you can’t please everyone. The likely result is that you may feel down as a result of your inability to fulfil your promises, call it guilt feeling, many people experience this when they have tied up themselves with too many commitments in an attempt to please

Making a decision to start a particular activity is the easiest thing to do, the real work is in actually executing your plans. That’s why many people have a lot on their to do list without a corresponding success in executing all their plans. I think the trick to executing your plans is to be

The best thing to do when you are agitated is to stay calm and process your thoughts before taking an important decision, this is because we are not our best when we are worried or nervous about something. Most decisions taken at these vulnerable moments usually yields bad results, so if you can delay that

Self-improvement is a subject of great importance. Without it, there would be stagnation in every facet of life. Technological developments, breakthroughs in science and medicine are all a result of someone’s constant search for more; for a better way of doing things. Self-improvement is a condition precedent to growth and success. I have never seen