Have you ever met a fault finder? How did you feel when you left that person’s company? I guess you felt drained. It is very easy to find fault in other people but not easy to find one in our own lives. Before you castigate another person, be sure you are good, you also need […]
Being thankful for what we have opens us up to opportunities to have more. You may not understand the blessing of having someone or your loved ones check up on you regularly until you meet someone who does not have such relationships. Sometimes, it may feel like these persons are prying when they try to
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Cheer up! I think you need to hear this. You have done well for yourself. You have been hardworking, attending diligently to your duties, and doing exactly what you should do. So, don’t beat yourself over what didn’t work out or what went wrong. Sometimes you can do everything perfectly but the results won’t come
We all are a product of nature and nurture. By nurture I mean our upbringing, the associations and the people we interacted with while growing up, and the relationships and associations we currently keep. It is difficult to see an adult who grew up in a loving home where corrections were made with love and
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It is important to separate yourself once in a while; it is important to do so because there are subjects or matters of importance to you that you may need that “alone” time to reflect on and resolve. I believe that we are able to give more to whatever undertaking we are into, when our
Doing the impossible requires a staying power. It is also called resilience, the ability to think radically and go for what you want irrespective of the difficulties attendant on going that route. Doing the impossible may also mean not having a precedence to follow or following a road less taken. Are you ready for certain
”To err is human to forgive is divine”, this popular saying is used basically when encouraging an offended person to forgive the person that offended him, especially in cases where the other party is genuinely sorry and wants to be forgiven. Human relationships are fraught with a lot of miscommunications; miscommunications are the primary cause
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Life has a way of springing up surprises when you least expect it. So, don’t be totally “surprised” when unplanned circumstances happen. Sometimes, the lessons from those experiences makes us stronger, better exposed and able to handle bigger challenges. If you are determined to hush your detractors, discomforts and unfavorable situations to still handle your
Today is a good day to look back and give yourself kudos on how far you have come. We often focus so much attention on chasing new things that we fail to acknowledge and appreciate ourselves for the milestones we have reached and even crossed. In your pursuit of success and the next deadline, please
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Write down all your ideas, plans or any subject at all you consider important. There are chances you may forget them if you don’t do so. Some people may contend that forgetting your ideas or plans simply means you never considered them that important. While some may agree with this, I do not think it